Be With Someone Who...

As you grow older, your circle of friendship gets smaller.. Growing up with less (or no) friends at all?
Friends come and go.. Thought that life has no meaning? Am I the only one that feels like this?

Ever wonder why ?

Semakin kita dewasa, semakin kita sedar yang kita tak perlu pun banyak kawan. They said having a lot of friends is good. Life is good when there are a lot of friends... Why?
They said the more, the merrier.

Well, they lied.

This world is dying and so is the friendship..... More friends more drama.... This world is cruel and so does friendship.. Friends for benefit they called. I called it "kawan makan kawan".

Careful... Not to trust easily because trust can easily be broken by those who don't value a friendship.

Nowadays, people change friend like they change their clothes. Replacing friends is as easy as replacing old toys with new toys. Yup, this kind of friend does exist. I know the feeling of being dikhianati oleh sahabat sendiri.. I know the feeling of being ditipu oleh sahabat sendiri. Choose your friends wisely...

My advice?

Move on. Don't chase after people who don't appreciate your presence.
Letih mengejar sesuatu yang bukan untuk kita. Letih mengharapkan persahabatan yang sia-sia.
Kata orang, kawan tu banyak... Memang kawan tu banyak, tapi kawan yang bernilai itu sangat sedikit. So, any last word for this type of people?
Make them appreciate your absence.

Remember, what keeps a friendship blooms is loyalty and trust.
Loyal friend is more valuable than a bunch of hundreds friends.

Why?
Because loyalty is rare. :)

Be with someone who worth your time and effort.
Be with someone who value the friendship.

Be with someone who you can go crazy with.
Be with someone who you can just be yourself.

Be with someone who knows the struggle you are facing and still support you.
Be with someone who knows how to make you laugh.

Be with someone who can be sarcastic with you.
Be with someone that knows that sarcasm can strengthen the friendship.

Be with someone who doesn't replace you easily when they find new friends..
Be with someone who constantly prays for you in their daily doa..

Me, siblings and Husna. :)

Never let family and friends be conflicting against each other. Make sure there is a "click" bila berkawan so that everything goes crazily the way you expected! hahaha! Find a balance in these two elements. When both family and friends are in balance, you are lucky.

Yup, I am lucky. Alhamdulillah! :)

When you find this someone, appreciate them. They are as precious as diamond.
Because, diamond is not easily be found. :)

Family or friends?
Find a balance, then you are lucky! :)

At the end of the day, true bestfriends stay. :)

You are irreplaceable. :)

Husna is one of those precious. Been bestfriends since 8 years old. This lady has made me gone crazy for over the years with her jokes, sarcasms, and banyak lagi!

Husna, I'm engaged. Please stop flirting with me. hahaha

Trust me, find someone who can hurt your stomach by laughing so hard and at the same time can please your stomach with good food! Someone who we can go huhuhuhuhu when there is no more money in our purse..  This proves that even duit mencemburui persahabatan kita! Cewahh! hahaha! And.... When you are trying to gain weight, make sure your bestfriends pun join sekali so that kita sama-sama boleh jadi chubby! hehehe! Lucky to have you! <3

A bestfriend is like a four leaf clover; hard to find and lucky to have.

Thank you for those wonderful single-ladies day out! Hahahaha! Kena manfaat zaman bujang selagi ada ni! Nanti dah kahwin tak boleh nak merasa semua ni.. If still boleh hangouts pun, the feeling will never be the same! hahaha

Do you wanna know what is best of both world?
When..... You can

Be with someone who knows that you love them and they also love you! <3

Kiss hug kiss hug virtually for you! <3

22/9/2016 - 24/9/2016